Good morning/afternoon beautiful Bonus Moms!
I’d like to know how many of you are now, will be, or have been for some time…Stepmoms in beautiful British Columbia, Canada? Or do you know some friends, family or acquaintances/colleagues that are going through a rough time adjusting to a blended family unit or becoming a step-parent?
Have you felt a total lack of support going through the every day battles, roller coaster of emotions and strain on your relationship? Do you wish that there was some sort of help in a world where the main focus tends to sway toward the bio-parents and their children? Do you feel there is a lack of professional or social support groups? Counselling/Coaching? Legal help? Even retreats to de-stress, learn and re-group your physical and mental well-being?
Please feel free to comment and/or contact me as in the upcoming months I will be training under the amazing and nationally renowned Jenna Korf (Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach & Author of ‘Skirts at War: Beyond Divorced Mom/Stepmom Conflict’.
Once completed I will have some great news for all of you BC Bonus Moms!
If you are looking for a FB page for information on all of the above, the below link is going to be it.
Bare with me as I get started out and proceed through training for certification but please use the tools and support that we can all provide to one another on this journey!
We are at the halfway point for obtaining signatures for the petition “Hon. Mary Polak: Spousal Support: Support change not spouses.” and wanted to see if you could help by adding your name.
As I don’t know who has signed and who has not I just need to keep posting and asking everyone to share!
For those of you that are directly effected by this or your friends or family are, you will already know how impossible this is for those we love who are trying to do the right thing for their children and family.
Our goal is to reach 100 signatures and we need more support. You can read more and sign the petition here:
Thanks so much for your support!
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Just a question to throw out there since I’m wide awake in the middle of the night…..lol
Do any of you feel that there is a double standard with stepdads vs. stepmoms?
On TV shows, radio and even reading articles it always seems that the men that “step up and step in” to raise another mans child/ren are the most amazing people on earth yet the stepmoms still seem to get the short end of the stick and dealing with a whole lotta hell.
I’m not personally saying that they have it easy, but just noticed that there definitely seems to be a divide and I wondered why? Is it as bio-dads really don’t have as many issues as bio-moms do with regard to someone else helping to raise their children? Do they simply move on quicker and not hold as much bitterness?
Any opinions on this would be interesting to hear. TIA!